In today’s society, young men are constantly exposed to ideas of what it means to be an “alpha” male, often portrayed through media, communities, and public spaces. These ideals, rooted in aggressive masculinity, deeply influence how young men think, behave, and interact. These are not just personal struggles—they are systemic forces designed to corrupt young minds.
Today, we spent time with male youth, engaging in a simple yet profound discussion about the intersections of masculinity and sexualviolence. We asked questions that challenge their understanding of manhood: “How are we created as men? Is the way we behave truly a reflection of what we want to be, or are we conforming to societal expectations?”
From this discussion emerged the painful reality of how discrimination, pressure, and control mold young men. These forces lead to strategies of exploitation, pushing men into cycles of privilege and power. We examined how sexual violence doesn’t emerge in isolation but is deeply intertwined with toxic masculinity, which rides on the back of caste, religion, region, and language-based hegemonies.
Our conversation also delved into historical patterns of sexual violence, drawing parallels to present-day issues. How does this vicious cycle begin? What systems benefit from the perpetuation of sexual harassment? Together, we explored these mental, political, economic, and cultural dimensions.
Importantly, the solidarity among youth from nomadic, tribal, NTDNT and Dalit communities shone a light on these complex issues. Together, we are peeling back the layers, questioning the privileges men are granted by society, and working towards a future where the cycle of violence is dismantled.
It’s time to rethink, redefine, and reclaim masculinity in a way that empowers without exploiting.
